AUTHOR - LIFE COACH - SOCIOLOG
NİLGÜN BODUR
HER BOOKS
LIFE IS THE EXCEPTION
THAT IGNORES
THE RULES
All pain will pass.
Some people break through
Some people think it won't pass, it will pass
You don't want some of them to pass,
It passes again.
And you look at those pains
when the time comes
It can even replace ointment.
You put it on another pain.
That too will pass.
NOT BECAUSE OF FAILURES
JUST BECAUSE OF LONELINESS
Saying "we broke up" as if it was a decision made together may only lessen the burden of one's leaving and the other's remaining. One won't come across as dishonorable, nor will the other appear miserable. There is no other predicate in our language that is comparable to the improper use of the phrase "We broke up." It only then takes two, if you love, miss, or prosper. Breaking up serves just as one individual's way out and the other's suffering. And the subject "we" does not flatter this statement at all.
SINCE YOU ARE GONE I HAVE BECOME MORE BEAUTIFUL
We shall beat our rivals not just by existing, but also by being unmoved, smiling, and feeling at ease.
The ultimate revenge
far from considering getting even.
Being separate from me is the ultimate payback.
The greatest revenge is the one that you're seeing in the gaze of a mirror,
that He is not able to see any more.
MY NEXT THANK YOU IS FOR THOSE
WHO WRONGED ME
I accept things just as they are. Also if something isn't going to happen on its own, I don't even try to make it happen. When he feels like loving, he does so; when he needs to depart, he goes; when he returns, we send him back; and there he goes once again. I always let things happen on their own. It doesn't matter if the people that come aren't already decent; they will eventually depart exactly the same way they arrived. I always put my hair up in a bun because I can't just leave it down. With the exception of the above, I'll keep things exactly as they are. Yet, everyone is clueless of the fact that everything that I leave "as is" are the ones that have never really "have been".
Nilgün Bodur, who was born in Istanbul in 1974, attended the Faculty of Business Administration at Istanbul University following her graduation from Sankt Georg Austrian High School, where she had received a multilingual education. Initially in 2020 she chose to pursue an additional degree in Faculty of Sociology at Istanbul University, with the intention of reaching her conclusive year of studies by the year of 2024 thus receiving a professional title in the field of social sciences, as an outcome of initial and continuing curiosity in the fields of psychology, philosophy, particularly the discipline of sociology. Over the course of her professional career, Nilgün Bodur rose to prominence as one of her nation's leading marketing and PR experts while operating for various prominent global brands such as Burberry, Lacoste, Swatch, Gant, Coach, Nautica, and Calvin Klein, all of which were affiliated with Eren Holding in Turkey, followed by work for several domestic prestigious retail brands including internationally recognized Damat and Desa. Throughout her career as a professional in the retail field, her innovative perspective, perseverance, and intuitive communication skills ultimately led her to achieve multiple and highly deserved international achievements and honors. Once Nilgün Bodur started sharing her ideas and viewpoint on various topics across different social media platforms, she gained the attention of people of all age groups and all genders but particularly women, as a result of her challenging and unconventional perspective on addressing cultural and social dynamics. Due to her unique way of expressing herself, her unfiltered authentic narrative of common subjects from her point of view, and her distinctive philosophical thinking on interpersonal relationships, establishing a greater awareness among her followers, she rapidly gained the trust and support of a significant audience. Nilgün Bodur's first book, "My Following Thank You Is for Those Who Have Wronged Me" was published in 2017. In the following five years, she published five books in total, including "It's Odd That That I Look Even More Beautiful Today, Since You're the One Who Disappeared the Other Day", "Suffering Is Not the Result Of Wrongdoings It Is Due To Loneliness", "I Got Wiser By Being Madder", and "Existence Consists Of Exceptions Not Rules And Regulations ". Nilgün Bodur continues her career today by delivering motivational speeches to large crowds and offering also individual online consulting sessions as well as creating instructive seminars regarding marketing and communication for enterprises. She is noted not just over her literary works but also over her personal philosophical thinking as well as her inspiring and impactful style of speech. By discussing the unchallenged and unquestioned principles of cultural norms, the author seeks to make use of her existence and standpoint on social platforms for enhancing social consciousness.
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